Mayaa SH | The Confluence Of The Heart and The Mind..

Developmental Feminist, A Literary Luminary in Contemporary Literature and  Women Empowerment Culturist Mayaa SH speaks on "Balance what your Heart wants with what your Mind Thinks is Best"...

What according to You is an important aspect for any woman to consider while taking decisions in life ?

Making important decisions on your own is a key component of being an independent woman. In order to feel confident doing this, use careful consideration when making big choices. Remember, the best way to make a big decision is to balance what your heart wants with what your mind thinks is best.Discover how self-reliance empowers girls to make independent choices, maintain safety and security, foster healthy relationships, and become leaders. It's a roadmap to a brighter, more self-assured future for girls everywhere. Being independent doesn't mean you don't need to rely on others. You can continue to be cordial to all but your happiness and desires remain autonomous.Before you can begin to make a decision, you need to fully understand your situation. Start by considering the decision in the context of the problem it is intended to address. You need to determine whether the stated problem is the real issue, or just a symptom of something deeper. Look beyond the obvious.

What is the main message that you have for women across the globe ?

There was a time when women had to fight for their right to vote, but how times have changed.Now, women are more than capable of choosing a leader (some are even leaders themselves). We have strong, independent women making waves and changing our society. But what makes them different from others?

Making important decisions on your own is a key component of being an independent woman. In order to feel confident doing this, use careful consideration when making big choices. Remember, the best way to make a big decision is to balance what your heart wants with what your mind thinks is best.Discover how self-reliance empowers girls to make independent choices, maintain safety and security, foster healthy relationships, and become leaders. It's a roadmap to a brighter, more self-assured future for girls everywhere.It means being comfortable with yourself, having self-confidence without seeking validation from others, and, most importantly, being able to take care of yourself. Being defined as strong and independent doesn't mean you don't need to rely on others too.We all face setbacks and struggles in life or have bad days. But what sets people apart is how they bounce back to overcome their problems. Look your demons in the eye and show the world that whilst you may make mistakes in your life, you have the confidence and strength to pick yourself up and start again. Be a force to be reckoned with.

What are the tips according to you to overcome emotional dependency?

To overcome emotional dependency, you can try these tips:

• Be self-aware: Get to know yourself, your likes, dislikes, and interests.

• Be kind to yourself: Practice self-compassion and self-acceptance.

• Make decisions for yourself: Trust your instincts and make logical choices.

• Develop new hobbies: Hobbies can help reduce stress and anxiety, and improve your mental well-being.

• Practice self-love: Give yourself the love, attention, and care you need.

• Set boundaries: Ask for what you need and set boundaries.

What according to you is being a headstrong woman ?

Being a strong and independent female means taking care of yourself and making sure your own needs are met. Look after your body, your health and inner and outer beauty. By making time for yourself, you are investing in your own success and well being. Strong and independent females are not afraid to face the world head on and tackle challenges as they come. They value themselves; body and mind, and respect and understand the gifts they have been given. In accepting who they are they are able to find inner strength and forge a pathway true to their hearts. So stand out from the crowd and don’t look back. Stop looking at everyone around you and instead look at the bright future shining in front of you. Are you a fearless independent warrior, unafraid to take on the world? To work towards emotional health, it is key that you understand that you are responsible for meeting your own emotional needs. If another person is chipping in and helping you with that, it is a bonus, but not what you can rely on.To work towards emotional health, it is key that you understand that you are responsible for meeting your own emotional needs. If another person is chipping in and helping you with that, it is a bonus, but not what you can rely on.If you suffer from emotional dependency, you most likely spend too much time in your cerebral fight or flight center; that means your reptilian brain is overactive. The dependent person will frequently feel on edge, waiting for the next shoe to drop, have muscle tension, and suffer from constant feelings of anxiety and dread.If you suffer from emotional dependence, you might frequently meet yourself harshly and have negative self-talk. This contributes to you being stuck in this counterproductive loop and creates an increasing feeling of anxiety and sadness.A strong and independent woman possesses resilience, the ability to bounce back from setbacks and face challenges with determination. Resilience allows her to persevere through difficult times, learn from failures, and emerge stronger than before. Whether facing personal hardships or professional obstacles, she remains steadfast in her pursuit of success.

How can any woman get transformation in life ?

A prerequisite for change is to meet yourself with kindness and acceptance. Inner cruelty will only keep you stuck and create unpleasant feelings!Being independent doesn't mean you don't need to rely on others. You can continue to be cordial to all but your happiness and desires remain autonomous.When making a decision, we form opinions and choose actions via mental processes which are influenced by biases, reason, emotions, and memories. The simple act of deciding supports the notion that we have free will. We weigh the benefits and costs of our choice, and then we cope with the consequences.We are known by the conscious choices we make in our lives .

We grow when we set positive examples for others and bring promising changes to our life.Truth be told, you grow when you set positive examples for others and bring promising changes to your life. And you can do this effectively when you practice what you preach.The women around our tables have identified a few factors that create the fertile ground for feeling like they belong:There is a need to create spaces where there is no judgement.In these spaces, women listen and ask questions, instead of making someone right or wrong. It creates the safety to share the innermost thoughts and ideas.Paying attention to details . When women feel other people care and truly want to hear women and see women across the world.Acceptance in life  is when we accept our full selves and feel compassion towards the things we do and say, even if it maybe wasn’t “right” or “perfect.”.If you are advising someone to be on time, make sure you are sticking to your timelines too. If you yourself practice punctuality like a ritual, it reflects on your integrity and dependability. In this way, you not only become reliable for others, but you also inculcate a sense of confidence in yourself. Remember, a punctual person is likely to be taken more seriously than someone who turns up late and doesn’t value time.It is easy to offer a handful of advice to others while at the same time looking for excuses to not follow them yourself. You are not an exception to the rule. Be mindful of the promises you make, and follow through. Set a precedent and others will follow. Practicing what you preach will not only make people trust you but will also turn you into a role model for them. By walking the talk, you emulate your powerful vision and set of values that comprise the mettle in you

About The Author

Mayaa SH is a name that resonates with the doctrine of powerful feminism and advocacy of championing the rights of women across the country. A globally acclaimed literary genius she has broken the stereotypical notion of the mindset that limits women to be achievers at par excellence.

Mayaa SH also known as Mayaa Devi, Mayaa Tai, Mayaa Di, Mayaa Audio SH, Pushpa ‘The Fire’ , Padma Of The East, Lady Robin Hood , Lady Karl Marx,MS Dhoni Of Writing , Female Chulbul Pandey and Lady Gandhi is a known name in Contemporary Literature .She is a Multi-National and State Award Winner, a thirteen times a World Record Holder, An Artist, a Podcaster,  a Record Chart Topping International Fastest Anthology Co-Authoress and has been chosen as number 1 The Modern Literary Stars Of India, 2022 by Cherry Book Awards for making valuable contribution to Contemporary Indian Literature.Mayaa SH is an Indian authoress, writer, thinker, essayist, and a women empowerment culturist who has had a deep influence on the ideological theories and practices of the women’s ideology of self belief and motivation in life . Her contemporary prose work has highlighted onto break so many stereotypes about women and their powerb of self belief.

Mayaa SH’s literary contributions have touched upon many issues and daily challenges of women. Mayaa SH a gender equality exponent to position and contextualize her work within the 2030 Agenda for Sustainable Development. She has depicted gender inclusivity and equality through her certifications from the United Nations and powerful writings on Feminism, Gender Equality,  Transforming Vision Into Action: Transmogrification on Transgender Community and Mental Health Awareness Topics. Her work depicts the identity, economic and social freedom of many. She has co-authored more than hundred and fifty plus anthologies with fourteen solo books and has been aligned with more than 86 publication houses. She has been featured in several magazines and women oriented like Tejaswi – The Imperishable on Women Power and Honour including few international magazines. Her first poem “The Candle In The Wind” made her win an Award at the National Level.

Mayaa SH navigates many women through stress by deploying talking as a medium to combat stress and fear. She is an expert in suicide prevention and women motivation. Her self help books have helped many to find a ray of hope to rediscover the light within themselves and restart their lives again amidst all impediments.